The Ultimate Eggplant Parmesan

Forget everything you thought you knew about Eggplant Parmesan! This isn’t the soggy, heavy version you might be used to. This is THE Ultimate Eggplant Parmesan; a labor of love that’s absolutely worth every minute. We’re taking the extra steps of salting and frying the eggplant to achieve an incredibly crispy texture, then layering it with a creamy homemade béchamel sauce that makes it outrageously rich and delicious. This is the show stopping, crowd feeding, Italian comfort food masterpiece of your dreams.

Why You’ll Love This Recipe

  • CRISPY, Not Soggy: Salting and pan frying the eggplant creates a firm, crispy base that stands up to the sauce.
  • Next Level Creaminess: The homemade Parmesan béchamel sauce adds a luxurious depth you just can’t get from store bought versions.
  • Make Ahead Marvel: This dish is perfect for preparing ahead of time, making it ideal for dinner parties and busy holidays.
  • Restaurant Quality at Home: This recipe uses professional techniques to deliver a result that rivals your favorite Italian restaurant.

Ingredients for The Ultimate Eggplant Parmesan

For the Eggplant:

  • 2½ pounds eggplant (2-3 medium), sliced into ¼-inch rounds
  • 2½ teaspoons salt, divided
  • ¾ cup all-purpose flour
  • 3 large eggs
  • 2 cups seasoned Italian breadcrumbs
  • Vegetable oil, for frying (about 3 cups)

For the Béchamel Sauce:

  • 3 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
  • 1½ cups milk
  • ½ cup finely grated Parmigiano Reggiano
  • ¼ teaspoon salt
  • ¼ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper

For Assembly:

  • 1 (24 oz) jar high-quality marinara sauce (like Rao’s)
  • 3 cups (12 oz) shredded whole milk mozzarella
  • 2 tablespoons finely grated Parmigiano Reggiano
  • Fresh chopped basil, for garnish

Instructions for Making The Ultimate Eggplant Parmesan

1Salt the Eggplant (Don’t Skip This!): Arrange the eggplant slices in layers on a cutting board or baking sheet, sprinkling each layer with about 1 teaspoon of the salt. Layer paper towels between the eggplant and place a heavy pan on top. Let it sit for 1.5-2 hours. This draws out excess moisture, which is the secret to preventing a watery, soggy final dish. Press firmly with more paper towels before cooking.

2Make the Creamy Béchamel: In a saucepan, melt the butter over medium heat. Whisk in the flour and cook for 2 minutes to form a paste (a “roux”). Gradually whisk in the milk until smooth. Bring to a simmer, whisking constantly, until the sauce thickens (about 2 minutes). Remove from heat and whisk in the ½ cup Parmigiano Reggiano, salt, and pepper. Set aside.

3Bread the Eggplant Like a Pro: Set up a breading station: one plate with flour mixed with ¾ tsp salt, a wide bowl with the eggs whisked with 2 tbsp water, and another plate with breadcrumbs mixed with ¾ tsp salt.
Dredge each dried eggplant slice in flour, then dip in egg, and finally press into the breadcrumbs, ensuring an even coat. Pro Tip: Use one hand for the dry steps and the other for the wet to avoid “club fingers.”

4Fry to Golden Perfection: Pour about ¼ inch of oil into a large skillet and heat over medium heat until shimmering. Working in batches, fry the eggplant for about 3 minutes per side until deeply golden brown and crispy. Transfer to a paper towel-lined baking sheet to drain excess oil.

5Layer and Bake: Preheat your oven to 425°F. In a 9×13-inch baking dish, spread ¾ cup of marinara sauce. Add a layer of fried eggplant, overlapping slightly. Top with ¾ cup more marinara, 1 cup of mozzarella, and dollops of one-third of the béchamel sauce.
Repeat to create two more layers. On the top layer, leave the edges of the eggplant exposed to get extra crispy. Sprinkle with the remaining 2 tablespoons of Parmigiano Reggiano.

6Bake, Rest, and Serve! Bake for 30-35 minutes until the top is golden and the sauce is bubbling. This is crucial: Let it rest, loosely covered with foil, for about 20 minutes before slicing. This allows the layers to set so you get perfect, clean slices.

 

The Ultimate Eggplant Parmesan

The Ultimate Eggplant Parmesan

This is the BEST Eggplant Parmesan! Eggplant is salted, fried until crispy, and layered with marinara, mozzarella, and a creamy homemade béchamel for a restaurant-quality dish.
Prep Time 1 hour
Cook Time 35 minutes
Total Time 1 hour 35 minutes
Servings 8 servings

Ingredients
  

  • pounds eggplant sliced into ¼ inch rounds
  • teaspoons salt divided
  • ¾ cup all-purpose flour
  • 3 large eggs
  • 2 cups seasoned Italian breadcrumbs
  • Vegetable oil for frying
  • 1 24 oz jar high-quality marinara sauce
  • 3 cups shredded whole milk mozzarella
  • 2 tablespoons finely grated Parmigiano Reggiano
  • Fresh chopped basil for garnish

For the Béchamel Sauce:

  • 3 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
  • cups milk
  • ½ cup finely grated Parmigiano Reggiano
  • ¼ teaspoon salt
  • ¼ teaspoon black pepper

Instructions
 

  • Sprinkle eggplant slices with 1 tsp salt and let sit between paper towels for 1.5-2 hours. Press dry.
  • For béchamel: Melt butter. Whisk in flour and cook 2 mins. Whisk in milk and simmer until thickened. Stir in ½ cup Parmigiano, salt, and pepper. Set aside.
  • Set up breading station: flour with ¾ tsp salt, eggs with 2 tbsp water, breadcrumbs with ¾ tsp salt.
  • Dredge eggplant in flour, then egg, then breadcrumbs.
  • Heat ¼ inch oil in a skillet. Fry eggplant in batches until golden brown, 3 mins per side. Drain on paper towels.
  • Preheat oven to 425°F.
  • In a 9x13 dish, spread ¾ cup marinara. Layer with ⅓ of the eggplant, ¾ cup marinara, 1 cup mozzarella, and ⅓ of the béchamel. Repeat twice.
  • Sprinkle top with 2 tbsp Parmigiano.
  • Bake 30-35 mins until golden and bubbly. Rest 20 mins before serving. Garnish with basil.

Notes

  • Salting is Key: This step removes moisture for a crispy, non watery result.
  • Make Ahead: Assemble up to 2 days before baking. Can also be frozen for up to 3 months.
  • Resting Time: Letting it cool for 20 minutes after baking is essential for clean slices.